July 29, 2009

A Conversation with the musing Brad Bechler ~



The Anniversary of Hurricane Katrina is one month away.

Now is the time to encourage thoughtful conversation.

Mayoral candidates are taking aim in New Orleans, and the entire Gulf Coast is still attempting to recover,maneuver,and bring forth change.

In the upcoming months,please challenge those who might care to begin a discussion about the remnants of Katrina's impact, how it continues to affect the United States and how we can contribute.

I have added a hashtag on Twitter #Dont4getTheGulf for real-time exchanges concerning what you plan to do, sharing with others as the anniversary nears and to get an idea of what The Gulf's needs still are.

Here is our interview with Author and Poet Brad Bechler.

I am so honored that he shared this time with us.



Brad, to me this was a book of songs that sang and wore my soul to the core.

Some songs were high, some were low, some were wet, dry and some made me cry.

When you were writing words to "When Will The Sky Fall?" were you representing your feelings toward the beast that is Katrina, the beast that was our government, or both.


Initially, the book was a response to the isolation, shock, seemingly loneliness, and anger. Much of my emotions were rapidly evolving as new information was processed through time, word of mouth, and eventually, the airwaves when we received electricity. As with many people, the initial response is to be angry at the Storm, itself, or that which manifests itself in the physical realm. However, the rational side of me paused for a moment, and took on a broader scope, teaming with deliberate, objective thoughts. I, soon realized that the battle was not with an “Act of God”, but a salient one to some, but overt one to me…..hatred, ignorance, inequality, led by our Government. Bear in mind that the government consists of People who, historically have ruled our country since its inception. Drilling down a bit, it is the practice of a dominant class who, in Katrina’s wake, revealed just how divided we are along Race & Class in America.



Do you think Katrina "washed" clean and exposed what the United States was trying to hide and exposed deep seated hate for those less fortunate who ultimately were unable to get out of New Orleans, or chose to stay?

Indeed, it did. I think this was the paradox of the century. Historically, when epic events disturbed our Nation like, Pearl Harbor, The Oklahoma Bombings, 911, and man Natural Disasters, we rallied together as we did during the early days of our country when the founding fathers created this seemingly, “Perfect Union” of the People, For the People, and By the People. No matter what the challenge, we bonded together for a common cause, enlisting our values and hearts to drive us towards solidarity. However, Hurricane Katrina was vastly different in that it inadvertently revealed the Social Divisions that lay dormant, just underneath the surface. As a result of the optics of the handling of the storm, it revealed deeply seated racism, and festering ill will towards human beings. Human suffering took a backseat, if you will. It was the “Perfect Storm” in many ways. This type of event was theorized to occur many years ago. Scientists and experts in the field of Tropical Weather warned officials many times over that a storm of the caliber of Katrina would be catastrophic. Of course, these warnings fell on deaf ears. Geographically, classes of individuals in lower strata, economically and socially, settled on lower elevations, while citizens in higher strata enjoyed the comfort and safety on higher ground. Deliberate or Convenient?


In your heart do you feel our beloved New Orleans was a vicitm of unfortunate circumstance or was the city left to drown?

I do not believe anything is absolute. Making a presumption on the latter would be bordering on Anger and irrational thought. I believe it is a combination of factors, history, and conditioning. We cannot rule out race as a factor in the Government’s lack of response. Nor can we rule out race being a factor in the media’s rendering of the event. Objectively, not many prudent people saw this coming. Historically, many near misses have compelled many to just bed down and weather the storm as opposed to bearing the stress of evacuating with the “threat” of every storm. In other words, Yes and Yes.



Had it not been for those who came to help, what do you think NOLA's fate would have been?

Hard to say. It could have taken on many forms: A totally redefined city bustling with commerce, streams of revenue/economic opportunities, and radically different demographics. It could have also been a city with a much higher death toll, and more widespread property damage. Or, it could have become a city of Angels.



What were you feeling when you penned "Joyful Refuge".

“Joyful Refuge”.

Here, I am taking you on a reflective/nostalgic journey of the city, its history, people, food, music, and the idiosyncrasies that defined life in the city. In the wake of Katrina, much of what was left was the trash and debris strewn about, once someone’s treasure. The trash told a story, and if you were lucky, it forced a smile.

I love "Dinner with Mr. Crow". You say "'Why am I whispering? You ask. Well, sir, the city sleeps now,'" When I went to NOLA in 2007, that is exactly how I felt, as if she was sleeping , like "shhhh". I was jolted hearing salsa ringing out on Bourbon Street and there was an uneasiness that remained in Jackson Square, has some of the old flavor returned?

Like life, homeostasis is the natural order of things when things get out of whack. When we fall out of balance, there is an innate tendency to repair damage or bring about calm. Life after Katrina is no different. Sadly, what defined the great city was not just the music, but the creators of the music that we cut a rug to. In many clubs and venues around the city, there are attempts to bring back the easy spirit of the past. But, the past cannot be recreated or destroyed. It only moves around and masks as something different.



"Porch". In its last verse reads "Father's on the porch turned breasts of chicken, with yams, ribs, and pineapple, searing with juice and clover." Can down home still be found?

Of course it can. The beauty of “Down Home Living” is that it is mobile. It goes with the spirit that carries it. It begins and ends in the heart. There, nothing can tear it apart.


Tell us about "Voodoo Goeth"?


As you know, the city of New Orleans has a long history of Voodoo practices, most of what was fictionalized on television, literature, and folklore. It was what tourists the world over marveled about when they descended on the city in big numbers. It was what made the city famous, among many things. As the people, the salt of the earth fled, the soul and spirit of things like Voodoo went along with them. This poem is my dedication to the spirit of what defined the city. When you juxtapose the history and current conditions along side each other, there is an ominous difference.


"Attic" is most powerful. There were many stories related about last breaths in the attic, what was your story?


This poem is one of my favorites in that it revealed just how compassionate many who perished were about their home, their great city. Because many were devout on not fleeing their precious homes for whatever reason, many perished in their homes as they escaped the rising waters. As I traveled along the Gulf Coast surveying the damage, and talking to Survivors, many of these stories of loss were told. If you can imagine water rising so rapidly that your only recourse was to climb into the attic as a last effort to escape. When those efforts failed, and attempts failed at clawing their way through the roof, the attic became their final resting place. This poem spoke to the will and strength of those who perished, at the institution of running. For many, they have ran all their lives from the earliest days of involuntary servitude. Some escaped to freedom, while many paid a heavy price. Attic, is the end of the road for running to many who lost their lives. It was symbolic of facing the storm, this time, a natural one.






What are your 2009 Anniversary of Katrina plans?

To be the voice of tribute to those who Survived and those who lost their lives. I am spreading the message of remembrance of this great moment in our history that I fear is being forgotten. By talking about what this storm did to and for America, it fosters a discussion on healing and restoration. I am using venues like this, radio, television, print media, and social media to galvanize the nation to making a positive change on how we deal with diversity. My prayer is that we get a little closer to being “One Nation Under God”. I am also involving myself in many non-profits/fund-raising efforts for awareness and nation building. At the end of the day, I am trying to get people to dig a little deeper to overcome things in their lives that is holding them back from greatness, balance, and inner peace.



What are your hopes as the mayoral campaigning revs up?


That the office of the Mayor, whether it is the current Mayor or an incoming Administration, gives more to the welfare of people than to processes. And, that the people can rely on sound leadership that supports them, competently, in times of disaster.



Do you have a vision for New Orleans? What are your wants from the candidates?

My vision of New Orleans is one in which fresh, new talent can come into the city and bring along with them, innovation, bi-partisan politics, and transparency. If we have great leadership, the culture can build itself around the ideals of change. A People’s committee/consortium should be formed to address the growing demands of change. In this way, the leadership can have more open communication with people so that their prescription for change impacts the greater good and is timely and appropriate.



My favorite is "Next", do you recall how you gave birth to it?

It was my attempt to share with readers that life is not static, and is merely defined by the event that garners the most shock value or attention. Because we are in an age in which we are forced to process information at a more rapid pace, we tend to forget events in recent history when another comes along. It is my attempt to not have America become complacent, as there is always another catastrophe looming.



Will you ever move home? Can you tell us what you are working on?

I will never move home again. What defined me was the road I took and the circumstances along the way that got me there. Because most of that is gone, home for me is in the heart and wherever I lay my hat. The memories will always be there, but the history cannot be found there, if pieces are missing.

In addition to my current world-wind of promoting this book, I working on my next work, a dramatic piece of fiction, similar to the work by Nicolas Sparks. Remember, I am a novelist first, a poet second.


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Brad this has really been a heartfelt and wonderful conversation about a city we both love.

For more with Brad Bechler OR to purchase "WHEN WILL THE SKY FALL"

Click here : Brad Bechler

Author, "WHEN WILL THE SKY FALL?"

http://www.bradbechler.com



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July 28, 2009

I JUST have to say this ~ I'm sorry wa wa wa *UPDATE

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In high school, I was the gal who had on the black high-top Chuck Taylors, ripped jeans, and half my head shaved. I didn't really hang with too many gal pals -

Just like I don't think I will be visiting my beloved Blogher.com for about a week until the "Conference Hoopla" calms down.

WHY?

WHINING.

Maybe it is the law in me. Maybe it is the veteran mommy or maybe it is premenstrual-premenapausal-crankiness - BUT - CAN WE STOP WHINING?!

Some of the posts I'm reading sound like old ninnies. Other posts are pouting because they didn't get this or that.

Blogher is a learning tool. It has grown from a few moms to Bloggers WORLD-WIDE, with real voices, real accomplishments, real illnesses, challenges, chronic diseases and more! They are gay, straight, nothing, everything, challenged, beautiful, frompy, valiant, remarkable, creative, and accomplished!

Again, I was just happy to be there. Happy for what was given. Happy for what was a spectacular effort and a great turnout.

Pleasing everyone - Pleasing anyone - is a monumental task ~ but value the experience. Value the moment, the journey, the effort, find joy in what is.

And if you can't do that, for heaven's sake * TAKE A CHILL PILL!

July 27, 2009

Blogher 2009 was a blast!!!




It was phenomenal! It was a HOOT! It was SOOOO much fun!!!

It was as if the entire experience had been touched by the Fairies!

While the sessions were informative - and uh - CROWDED, the EXPO was the MOST FUN!!!

I was SOOOO happy to meet my idol bloggers like Los.Angelista, Punditmom, ThatWoman, Mochamom, NYCMama, CutieBootyCakes, JUST TO NAME A FEW!

Being my first time, I was a little set back when Friday Morn, I became a victim of "THE ~ LOST ~ TAGGERS". They could not find my registration tag! I felt rejected and blue but alas, it was resolved and the rest of the experience was WOOHOO!

AND IT DIDN'T SNOW!

The parties, the swag, the great company: CAN'T WAIT TO SEE EVERYONE NEXT YEAR! BLOGGER 2010 - NYC HERE WE COME - LOOK OUT!



AskWifey, greenyourdecor.com , MyBrownBaby, DoingSoWell, MommyDaddyBlog, NYCityMama, LosAngelista, MyLifeAWorkInProgress




July 22, 2009

Daydreaming

Lupe Fiasco & Jill Scott on David Letterman ~ Keeping the vibe positive!

July 20, 2009

*Still Baracking this House*

{My thoughts after reading "Siditty" & "LosAngelista"'s posts}

I watched the MSNBC episode on Maddow LIVE.

I was too shocked and horrified by the mixture of my emotions to comment, only saying on Twitter "Do we start with the PatnBayBuchanans or the momsinthepark? LosAngelista.com".

I was overwhelmed by the delivery my President {I LOVE saying that after NOT saying it for 8 years} gave the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People and then mortified by Pat Buchanan.

Seriously, "everybody is covered by the 14th amendment unless you are a white guy and your parents and ancestors came from Europe then we can discriminate against you..." ????

I am so confused and disgusted that his argument could even come out of his mouth. I am so incredibly nauseated by his thoughts, and those who think like him, that I could stab my eyes out.

We always knew this is what folks like him thought, but to hear it now, out in the open being spewed on LIVE television, well is actually a good thing. It's out. It's out for ALL to see and hear.

Let's use this opportunity to discuss, dialogue, move forward, teach our kids and hopefully, like my BLACK PRESIDENT said "In 100 years from now on the 200th Anniversary of the NAACP, let it be said that this generation did its part..."

Make it so #1!

July 19, 2009

Blogher - Chicago - 2009 YAY!

Just wanted to share my "Getting to know you before, during, and after Blogher 09" post that our friend Denise Tanton, who authors Flamingo House Happenings, asked us to write.

Denise is the Community Manager of Blogher.com. Pop over to Blogher to see what she said, as always, it's a hoot!

Spunky and smart she epitomizes what Blogher is all about!

Us ~ fun-loving, full of life, sharing, living and doing our part to get through our journey. What a statement about womanhood - I am so thrilled.

Anyway, here is what I penned:

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Hey Denise and fellow Blogher gals!

A native Chicagoan, born and raised, this will be my first Blogher Conference!

I am a civil servant closing in on my 20th year in local government.

I started my blog two years ago and it saved my life. The drudgery of a day job such as mine zapped the life and creativity from my bones. While I love what I do, the nature of law enforcement can make even the happiest person question humanity!

I have enjoyed belonging to Blogher, reading other gals; their hopes and dreams, fears and fantasies. I have become friends with awesome spirits and have gained knowledge of so many things I did not know.

Looking forward to the sessions, being a bit nervous about what to wear, and hoping it does not snow are a few of my thoughts on the upcoming week.

Warm and a total hugger, I will be the one running up to hug you so if you have personal space issues - do turn the other way!

This will be such a great time - Chicago may be many things but for those who know this city well, we are friendly and loving ~ yes the muggers too {just kidding} - it is a big city, be prepared to be careful but also to enjoy our hospitality.

Enjoy a Chicago-style hot dog {they have vegan kinds too}, take in the lakefront, be sure to see Navy Pier - and grab me, I'd be glad to tell you all I know about the Chi!

See you soon!

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July 18, 2009

"If u dont like something, change it. If u cant change it, change ur attitude." ~ Maya Angelou

Fellow Chicago Blogger Mama Red shared the above on my favorite social network Twitter (via @rowenaaine)~ so profound and meaningful, it is my message today!

AMAZING what you can convey in 140 character, isn't it!!!

July 17, 2009

Blogher, Tide, Tim Gunn & my wardrobe!

Okay, let's face the music. This is not LIKELY to happen ~ BUT it could!















THAT said, I hope to be rocking a look on this order, simply because it's simple, cool, casual corporate and adapts to any of Chicago's tricky weather occurrences!




Just because our WONDERFUL Blogher.com conference is at the end of July, folks, let's remember, I just turned my heat off two weeks ago!




With promises of fun and Tim Gunn and Tide and laughter and learning - My hometown can produce whatever weather it may - we will still have a joyous event, come what may! I'm packed and ready are you??



{Thank you Banana Republic for the looks and for not suing me ~ Your stuff is always classy, sexy, cool}

July 15, 2009

"It is good for America because we are the land of opportunity" ~ Honorable Judge Sonia Sotomayor




The impact of our having a black man as President has been like a small crack in your windshield -

Here we are at the 6 month mark and the crack is spreading. For those tight shirts, it is spreading at an alarming rate. Their attack on the Honorable Sonia Sotomayor has been so unsettling. Their fear of losing ground and the reverse discrimination antics are really criminal.

The Ricky Ricardo fiasco would have NEVER taken place - NEVER TAKEN place - had the nominee been a non-minority.

There has never been any tangible repercussions for the crimes committed against minorities on this soil.

There have been token luncheons, visceral holidays, and a few congressional formal apologies that mean nothing. Empty promises and continued bias and bigotry.

There has been no compensation to give to the Native Americans {I include the Black American in this category} that amounts to what was so brutally taken away.

The fracturing of the family unit in these cultures has never mended and has been left as an open sore on society even today more than 200 years later.

The state of race in our union sickens me - and it sickens me more so every day.

Then I watched Anderson Cooper brilliantly documenting my President as he ventured to Ghana.

Part of what originally turned me away from Barack Obama as a candidate has now made me nod in utter praise while raising my hands up. President Obama is an African-American. He has one parent FROM Africa. I felt he did not have a grasp of my pain or my experience because his father came here willingly to attend school. He was allowed to marry the mother of his child. Not the typical black experience.

I am awed that my President has been thoughtful, eager, educated, and encouraged enough to take the walk in others' shoes. He has grasped, with a hunger, for insight into the other man's experience. From the Arab to the Jew. From the Russian to the whales. Our President has a conscience.

Eloquently he shared with Anderson Cooper what I have felt in my heart my entire life. I have posted the video below for you if you have the time.

The President shared that Black Americans are "more fundamentally rooted in the American experience because they don't have a recent immigrant experience to draw on." The black mixture of native, immigrant and slave has left a rich genetic imprint on this country. Wounds that may never heal from a land founded on the raping and pillaging, conquering and confiscating of others continue to fester, but the reign has ended.

The reign has come to a peaceful end.

The diversity that was spoken of in our Constitution, that has only recently come to fruition, is threatened but it will not falter. The move forward toward a "more perfect union" has momentum now all across this great globe. Freedom will be fraught but not conquered.

Staring in disbelief as senator after senator, pouncing this week at the Supreme Court Nomination hearings has left a bitter taste in my mouth. I am forging on, despite their antics, with the strong unfailing belief that tolerance will come.

"Diversity on the bench is good for America" rang from Judge Sotomayor's lips and hopefully has touched every ear on this planet.

My President's children have rich culture and are witnessing the truest American experience. Their ancestors - white, black, native, slave, immigrant - are all finally sitting in The White House. A picture of diversity, adversity, and victory complete.

A peaceful transition from domination and deceit to tolerance and love -

I won't be watching the rest of the hearings because I just can not stomach the bigotry and the hypocrisy. I have instead summoned strength and endurance and sent it Judge Sotomayor's way. I hope that her place in history will be celebrated. I also plan on writing her a thank you note for her dedication and service and for her grace under fire - I hope you will join me.

July 10, 2009

Let's Go Crazy!



My limited time here on this marvelous planet has afforded me the opportunity to honor favorites like James Earl Jones and Tyrese.

BUT I have never honored Prince!

In light of our loss of Michael Jackson, it occurred to me that no one should be taken for granted.

I have never honored Prince because his influence has been SO monumental for me. I've been unable to categorize my love because it has been SO great! It reaches further for me than MJ because I fell under his spell as an adolescent.

MJ LOVE occurred when I was 5, so by the time Prince came along, crooning "I Wanna Be Your Lover", it was a welcome like none other!

Nancy Pelosi has chosen to ignore MJ's genious with unfounded theories of pedophilia and misconduct; never commenting on those parents and their greed. Or on the hundreds if not thousands on felony probation that I see, who are unlawful and have sexual deviance, yet are allowed to walk our streets freely.

At any rate, I have chosen to contribute my thoughts about the remarkable and talented people and the love they have given us - leaving all of the other very human parts of folks to their private business.

NOT TRYING TO PUT ANYONE ELSE IN THE GRAVE. Merely honoring those who are due in the way that they should ~ without societal ringing the hypocritical bell.

Prince is important, especially to the black community, because he took sexuality and creativity to a higher level...just beyond where James Brown and Marvin Gaye left it, all the way to transnational hysteria.

Hearing my mother scream "Take that NAKED man down right this minute!!" resonates a certain satisfaction to a teen, now doesn't it??

PRINCE, known to lock himself in his studio, play all of the instruments and sing all of the vocals; "Sexy Dancer", "Purple Rain", we're not getting any younger BUT I will ALWAYS be "...In Your Hair"!