February 29, 2008

Friends On Friday Presents ~ "Kylie" & WomenCo!


There are some new ladies in town that we all must meet! They are the women of WomenCo!

WomenCo is a premier online community for female professionals within the United States of America. According to the site, it is a forum for getting up to date news and current affairs all while having the capability to network with professional, working women from across the North American continent.

In 2008, WomenCo joined with Monster Worldwide (Nasdaq: MNST) to accelerate growth and to improve the career and educational opportunities for its members. To learn more about Monster, visit monsterworldwide.com.

Kaamna Dhawan is the General Manager.


Her curriculum vitae is impressive! Born in Mumbai, India Kaamna moved to the United States to attend Smith College. After obtaining her Bachelors degree in Clinical Psychology, Kaamna went on to receive her Masters in Human Resources and Industrial Relations at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. She was hired into an HR Rotational Program at Sun Microsystems, and found herself moving out to the Bay Area to work in the Silicon Valley.

I was attracted to WomenCo after meeting "Kylie".




The most intriguing concept on WomenCo is that it is all encompassing! Where else can you learn about diversity issues, shoes and shop for a fashionable laptop cover for your new notebook!

Check this out! http://www.womenco.com/products/products/27-the-all-new-designer-laptop-cover

I love this!

Joining is free and it is an informative, inspiring gateway to the corporate world of women. Discussions about family, gender bias, attitudes and many other newsworthy items. Networking, support and job assistance! There is something for every woman.

I was lucky enough to catch up with Kylie who was kind enough to fill us in on the behind the scenes at WomenCo. She is an instrument from which we can all get together, support each other, while learning the latest from working gals for working gals and gals seeking careers and career opportunities! Thanks Kylie!

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Kylie, you are the web producer of a great new site called WomenCo. Tell us about your position. What does your position entail?
As the site’s main editor and content developer, I am usually met with a steady and ever-growing stream of activities to attend to: user correspondences, creation of our newsletters, updating of news articles, discussions, and videos, implementing and debugging new features, and larger-scale conceptual brainstorming. Lately, the main challenge has been to organize my time in such a way that the actual work I accomplish is as beneficial as possible.

The most important aspects of my work are : 1) Making sure our users experience insightful, fresh content as often as possible, 2) Helping users find what they are looking for on the site (and if what they want is not there, creating it), 3) working to expose WomenCo to users elsewhere on the internet, and 4) building valuable partnerships with other organizations and websites dedicated to women’s communities.

How was WomenCo born? Who does it aim to serve?
WomenCo is truly a brain-child of several San Francisco start up entrepreneurs who wanted to explore different ways of conceptualizing ‘community’ on the web. A lot of us were frustrated with the airbrushed, fluffy content we found on high-traffic sites designed for women (iVillage comes to mind). In a way, WomenCo was designed as a partial reaction against that type of site. But our target audience is women who are looking for empowerment through their jobs and careers, education, entrepreneurial opportunities, and – in a more general sense – their social lives as a whole. Oh, and we like to have fun, too.

How has this experience enriched your life?
I’m young, and although I’ve been fairly tech-savvy for 10 years or so, I’m quite new to the business world. Working on WomenCo has enriched my life by through introducing me to an entirely new modality of thinking: the continents of thought known as ‘business development’ and ‘marketing’.

Moreover, I’ve never interacted, psychologically speaking, with such a diverse and experienced group of women on a day-to-day basis before. This is probably responsible for the most radical of the many changes I’ve gone through since I began working on WomenCo. Having graduated from a small liberal arts college recently, I’ve had to scale back a little bit of my know-it-all tendencies and really listen to people more. What can I say, I’m a Taurus.

What I liked about WomenCo is that it is a networking tool, but it also features important discussion as to how to accomplish your professional goals, thought processes, but will also help you to get that perfect slip for your laptop/notebook or tell you an inpsiring story by a woman who could very well be your neighbor. The feeling is comfortable, the pages load easily, and it is inviting ~ what can we expect in the upcoming months?
One thing that I can promise is more interactivity. Specifically, you’ll see more intuitive ways to view the site’s information over the next few months. A better entertainment section, easier to read articles, and increased ability for members to share information with one another. Ideally, simply by inputting a little bit of information about yourself, WomenCo will be able to figure out what your interests are, and highlight all of the content we’ve got that relates interest. It might be a completely difference experience for two different users. The real trick to this approach would be to make it way, way easier for users to share content with one another.

Other than that, we’re thinking about adding a Blogging platform to the site. We’ve got some big changes coming, and I can’t wait to get feedback from our users.

What is WomenCo's sight set on for the long term?
WomenCo’s long-term plan is to become more of a developed, reliable resource for women who want insight into more specific careers, choices, and women’s issues. We’d like to develop our job resources to the extent where women could log on, supply some personal information, inquire about a career in a certain area, and immediately be put in touch with a network of potential employers, like-minded applicants, resume experts, etc. Idealistic, but an excellent goal, in my opinion.

And we know how to work towards that. For starters ,we’d like to begin giving some of our users more ownership over the site. For example, it would be great if we could feature a nutrition expert who gave advice to other WomenCo users, while gaining experience which would look really impressive on an application for a teaching position. That’s the ultimate goal we have for WomenCo – to make it feel essential for as many women as possible.

Can we check back periodically? We would love to keep posting on the news and excitement I am sure this site will be generating for years to come!
Check back frequently, if you want! The more, the merrier.

Oh, and one more thing I wanted to mention: we encourage men to check out our site, too. Our “Ask a Man” section has lots of questions we’d love to hear your input on. Just because we’re a resource geared towards Women’s issues doesn’t mean we don’t like to hear from the other sex every now and then!

You know I did notice that feature "Ask a Man". That is great! Thanks Kylie! It is a pleasure, hope to be chatting with you again soon!
It’s been a pleasure for me as well. Take care!
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Ladies, Kylie was kind enough to extend us her email, feel free to chat with her, send feedback or ask questions.

Kylie@womenco.com

Make it a good one!!

February 27, 2008

What in The World...

I am very concerned about the tone America has taken lately during this election process. It has been over six months of campaigning, and though uncomfortable, the tone has been typically political.

These past few days however, the ugliness of America has begun to really rear its head ~ AGAIN ~ and it is not cute. There seems to be a forgetting that we, as Americans, comprise a vast multi-ethnic, multi-cultural, multi-religious representation and it is vital that all use choice commentary. I find myself saying alot these days..."I'm not Muslim, but what if I was?" "My middle name is not Hussein, but what if it was?", "My heritage is not from the middle east, but what if it was?"

How many Americans have the name Hussein? I am positive that Senator Obama is NOT the only person in America who is a full fledged American with the name Hussein! What a horrible time to be different. Everytime we turn on the television people are proclaiming their clicks and being insensitive.

Is it wrong to support Israel and Palestine? Is it wrong to be Christian but support Islam? Is it wrong to be American but name your child Hussein? Is it wrong to embrace someone else's culture while still maintaining your own?

So what's with the negativity surrounding Senator Obama dressed in native Kenyan garb? Is that SO scary? Does that really scare America? I thought we were all moving past ignorance into the 21st century, What is going on???

I am not naive. I am not deceived. But how have you all been feeling lately???
With folks like Bill Cunningham, 700 WLW Cincinnati, Ohio starting to speak out, it has reminded me that we really have not come far at all ~

How are you guys feeling? Do we still have miles and miles to go?

How do we get there?

What is the climate in your soul?

Let's still try to make it a good one and enjoy the day!

February 24, 2008

NOLA SUNDAYS are Fleurdeliciously FLEUR DE.LIR.I.OUS!!!

Image "Renew New Orleans"Andrea Mistretta at Mardigrasgraphics.com

Rene Fletcher, CEO and President of Fleurdelisfashions.com is running quite the online sale!!!

Her passion for New Orleans, the fleur de lis AND fashion has collimated into quite the spectacular vehicle for entrepreneurship, promoting great products, and fun.

I was able to get Rene to stop in for a few to share this wonderful concept of taking what you love and turning it into a prosperous tool from which you can make your living, share your vision and enjoyment for life, all while inspiring someone else's next idea!



Rene, tell us about the blog!
The blog started off as a way to highlight our products to a broader audience than just our site. As we expanded, we have come to include stories about New Orleans, and anything having to do with the fleur de lis symbol. We have gotten some great feedback from our readers and we enjoy the feel of the blog. The combination of promoting our site and writing great articles about the fleur de lis are a fun way to stay in touch with our readers.

Is your store exclusively on line?
Yes, right now we are an online store only. One day we hope to open several boutiques where our customers can come shopping.

As women entrepreneurs, what advise can you give for an aspiring entrepreneur?
The best advice I can give is: Don't be afraid to try. Start off small, learn as much as you can. The more things you can do yourself the more money you can save. Give yourself at least two years to figure out your successes. The first year is strictly learning what works and what doesn't. The second year is when you know whether or not you can make money at it. The last piece of advice I can offer is: Do something you love. You have to love what you do to spend the amount of time it will take to run a successful business. Also, no one wants to work for an owner who is not passionate about what she does.

Can you tell us how you became "Fleurdelirious"?
We started out collecting a few pieces of jewelry to sell to our friends as the symbol was so popular in New Orleans. After the storm, it's popularity was overwhelming to our area. We were crazy about it before Katrina, but truly obsessed after!

Is it out of pure love for NOLA?
Since our love for our city was enriched after Katrina, we wanted to find a way for residents who were spread about the country to be able to connect to New Orleans. That's when we opened Fleur De Lis Fashions.Com. We wanted to offer affordable items so that even if all someone could spend was $9.99 we were able to offer something for them. Every product in our store is under $50.00 for this reason. We want people to be able to find beautiful fleur-de-lis items that are high quality at great prices.

Are you smitten with the symbol itself?
ABSOLUTELY!

The historical information on the website is fascinating? Of course, loving the symbol myself, I was aware of the background, but if there something we could share with the audience about the Fleur de lis as it is seen today, what would it be?
This symbol has hit the fashion scene in a big way! If you pay attention to different television shows and celebrities you will see it everywhere. Just the other night on American Idol, host Ryan Seacrest had on a fleur-de-lis T-shirt. While in New Orleans we feel like we own the symbol, we don't. It's popular all across the world now.

Are you familiar with the artists? Are they from NOLA?
Most of the manufacturers of the products we sell are not from NOLA, but have family or friends here. They too understand the importance of keeping prices affordable.

What are some of the favorite items?
Some of my favorite items include our Fleur De Lis Crystal Gemstone Brooch, which is on sale right now for $19.99.



This pin is of such high quality for the price you can't beat it. It truly exudes class and style with royal meaning. Another favorite of mine is any of our fleur de lis handbags.





They are so unique! Customers always tell us how they get stopped on the street and asked about them. It's not something you will see everyone have.

Best sellers?
Some of our best sellers include our Black Fleur De Lis Watch.



This watch sells for $29.99. It's so much fun because it matches easily to so many of our jewelry items. Another best seller is our Fleur De Lis Silver Rhinestone Shirt. This attractive shirt has been seen on celebrities like Jessica Simpson and Eva Longaria. It's hip and fun. The shirt sells for only $28.99. We can hardly keep it in stock!


WOW, Rene! Thanks for taking time to share this wonderful online shopping with us!
Keep us posted on sales and new arrivals! Or guys and gals, feel free to check out Rene at the following sites!

Rene Fletcher
CEO
THE STORE ** www.fleurdelisfashions.com"Style & Elegance at Affordable Prices"

THE BLOG ** www.fleurdelirious.blogspot.com

February 23, 2008

C-SPAN NOW

Check out The State Of The Black Union broadcast LIVE FROM NEW ORLEANS on C-SPAN for dialogue and information pertinent to the nation as a whole. LIVE ~ NOW ~ all day ~

Thank you Tavis Smiley ~ I have been enriched beyond what I imagined already!

Make it a good one!

February 22, 2008

Fleur de lis ~ Fashions at their finest!


It is NO secret that I LOVE NOLA! AND to love NOLA you have to love the Fleur de lis.


The symbol, which is adorning this blog, and which has taken over NOLA on many levels, has really infected my soul ~ in a good way! Today I would like to introduce you to an entrepreneur who has taken the Fleur de lis to new heights!

The fleur de lis is a symbol that pre-dates New Orleans. It is the design of either a lily or iris and is a well-known icon of France. It is said that King Louis VII carried it as his emblem and that historically it dates as far back as the Merovingian King Clovis, who reportedly wore an Iris flower in his helmet as he rode to victory in a battle.

Nowadays it is synonymous with the New Orleans Saints and everything NOLA.

Our friend Rene Fletcher, Web master, President and CEO of Fleurdelisfashions.com
has accessorized the fleur de lis to fit all of your fashion needs! Seriously!






These items and more can be purchased through the online store at www.Fleurdelisfashions.com!

Read more about Rene here or check back as she we will be our feature for NOLA SUNDAYS!!!!!!!

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Bubba!

February 21, 2008

Before 18? Or At least before 41!


I have been tagged by the wonderfully talented Los Angelista at www.LosAngelista.com
Within this meme are some very important issues for our youth and I suppose this could not come at a better time. I am very unconventional, free-spirited and probably a hippy at heart ~ so BEWARE! I shared Los Angelista's list with my son! I have not shared mine ~ NOT YET! But I am sure that I will, when he's 15!
Just kidding.

Here are the rules:

1. Post these rules before presenting your list.
2. List 6 actions or achievements you think every person should accomplish before turning 18.
3. There are no conditions on what can be included on the list.
4. At the end of your blog, choose 6 people to get tagged and list their names.
5. People who are tagged write their own blog entry with their 6 suggestions.
6. Don’t forget to leave them a comment telling them they’re tagged.



The First and Foremost action I would like to share that one should have accomplished by 18...and I believe this to also be an achievement, even though it is very unlikely that you will have even the tiniest inkling of who you really are: To thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man.
~~ William Shakespeare


I say that because of the pressures to be during teen aged years. Be cool, be smart, be - with an expectation or realization that often really is not your own. If you at least attempt to wake up every morning, listening to your heart and being true to yourself, forsaking all others and refraining from allowing ANYONE to define you, you have embarked on a good day.

Secondly, give your self permission to breathe. Two nieces, who are under 18, are in a constant flux trying to live up to this and that, accomplishing this and that ~ and I always try to remind them that it is okay to make mistakes, let folks down, be who you are -- THEN BREATHE. The youngest of my neices (there are three total) seems to be the least fretful. Maybe from hearing the other two constantly fret? I don't know, but it is essential youth know that life goes on, even after the hundredth mistake. I unfortunately did not achieve this until I was 35!





Third, give the gift of you and be blessed by it while you are still young. SO many of our youth are killing themselves, and others. STOP IT! WE love you! WE NEED YOU! You matter! There is something special that each person came here to give. Don't destroy that, share it! There are fields and fields of services that need the gift of you. Feed someone, mentor someone, save a dog, a cat, a tree or another teen. Definitely get involved so that when it is time you can be in a place to help us shape this world




Fourth, take care of that gift that is you. Before you know it you are a scrunchy old hag like me! Don't Super size yourself. Eat right and exercise.

Fifth, SEE THE WORLD! There are exchange programs. Church programs. Expeditions. Not to party, but to promote learning about one another.

AND FINALLY, Write about it.




I am SO fascinated by my fellow bloggers, their experiences, their writings, their view points, their international lifestyles ~
Many are young writers, but they are so experienced and they have a voice. Nurture that. I started writing journals, letters, stories, poems...quite young. Read and write. And that is Houseonahill's "Healthier, Happier, You!!!!" six tips that should be attempted before 18!

THANKS FOR INDULGING ME ON MY FIRST TAG! Thanks Los Angelista! I don't know how I did, BUT I had fun~~

My six fellow bloggers to be tagged ARE (drumroll):

MommyJournals ~ Houseonahill.net

Alkamae Blog

Pentad

Color Online

Gullibility

Mes Deux Cents

Pits from the Bark need homes today!


A little over a month ago, January 12, 2008, I ran a post about Josephine and her beau Langston. They became parents to six puppies! Bark Avenue is now home to Josephine and 3 of the six puppies. Bark Avenue is a special place. They take very good care of my loving sweet-face SandyGirl.





So, whenever they send out for help, I POST! Langston and the other pups have found loving homes. If anyone in Chicagoland, or anywhere else for that matter, desires to build a life with a wonderful pit, please give Daniel a call!

Wary of pit bulls? DON'T be! They are SO loyal and loving. Visit www.understand-a-bull.com for more information. Life without a pit just isn't worth living!!!

Here is the email from Bark Avenue in its entirety:


Thanks to everyone who helped forward the first email
for Josephine and her puppies. We were able to find
homes for Dad-Langston, and 3 of the 6 puppies!

Josephine and 3 of her puppies are still looking for a
home to call their own. See attached photo, or visit
http://www.barkavenueplaycare.com/adoption/adoption.html

Their story:
Found roaming the streets of Chicago, Josephine and
her boyfriend, Langston were looking for a warm place
to have their puppies. With nobody claiming the dogs,
Bark Avenue took in ' Mama-Jo'. On November 30th, she
gave birth to 6 healthy puppies. Langston and 3 of the
6 puppies have found homes. Mama-Jo and 3 of the
puppies are still available for adoption.

Mom, Dad and all of the puppies are very loving
pit-bulls who think they are lap dogs. They will be
wonderful and loyal companions. Josephine is
dog-friendly, cat-friendly…and perfect! Mom and
puppies are up-to-date on their shots & microchipped.
Josephine has been spayed and all puppies have an
appointment to be spayed/neutered.

Please help us find homes for Josephine and puppies by
forwarding this email to anyone who may be able to
help.

For more information or to meet Josephine and her
puppies, please call
Daniel @ 773-852-3997
or email: email_us@barkavenueplaycare.com

Bark Avenue Playcare, Inc.
http://www.barkavenueplaycare.com



Give a pit some love today! Make it a good one!

February 20, 2008

Tavis Smiley's State of the Black Union ~ Guess Who's Coming to Dinner and Who Is Not ~


And essentially what all of this means to us. It is an opportunity to promote Tavis Smiley, his books and his contributions. It may also serve as a function to clear up any discrepancies. It may also serve as a bit of thought provocation, which is where Tavis Smiley does his best.

I received this email today, though I am aware this commentary ran on the Tom Joyner Morning Show that I no longer listen to, last Thursday on the 14th of February. I remain in ardent support of Tavis Smiley. He is an invaluable, thought-provoking citizen within the black community and beyond borders. I think it was important that the clarity be aired for those of us who are not privy to the details of what occurred. I certainly did not know the specifics prior to receiving this correspondence.

It is always nice to set the record straight and "Say whatcha need to say" as John Mayer so eloquently sings! This email was sent to me off the email subscription to TavisTalks.com.

The State of the Black Union is set for Saturday, February 23, 2008 in New Orleans, Louisiana. It will be broadcast LIVE on C-Span.

For those of you who have not read "The Covenant With Black America" by Tavis Smiley, it is necessary reading.





A compilation of the issues facing black Americans today. It is available through Amazon.com or any local book dealer. You can search at the bottom of this site or click here.



Commentary by TAVIS SMILEY
Senator Barack Obama and the State of the Black Union 2008
Tom Joyner Morning Show
Thursday, February 14, 2008
By now many, if not most of you, have either read or heard about the letter faxed to me by Senator
Barack Obama yesterday to officially inform me that he would not be attending the State of the
Black Union symposium next Saturday, February 23, in New Orleans, live on C-SPAN. The letter
was apparently made public on the Internet by the Obama campaign.
This morning a few thoughts now about the letter, about Senator Obama and for that matter, about
Michelle Obama.
First, I want to thank Senator Obama for his letter, although I regret his decision. I said on Tuesday
and I reiterate today, that I believe that this is a critical miscalculation and a missed opportunity.
Having said that, I also feel that should Senator McCain or Governor Huckabee, like Mr. Obama,
end up denying our invitation to appear at this annual Black think tank, it would also be for them as
well, in the long run, a critical miscalculation and a missed opportunity.
Particularly for Senator John McCain, who appears to now be the presumptive Republican nominee
and who decided, as you recall, not to appear last year before Black America in Baltimore.
Indeed, I personally expressed that sentiment to Senator McCain earlier this week. Don’t think that
in the general election, should he be the nominee, that he ain’t going to get reminded frequently that
he kept passing on opportunities to speak to Black and Brown audiences. That’s pretty much
Political Science 101. That’s going to happen, trust me.
Two. For the record, with regard to this letter and the statements made therein, my office was never
contacted by the Obama campaign offering Michelle Obama as a proxy speaker. It never happened.
No letter. No fax. No e-mail. No phone call. No document whatsoever from the Obama camp to
my office, ever, regarding Michelle Obama. She was never offered, it was never discussed.
Three. While I have great admiration and affection for Michelle Obama, had she been offered to us
I would have respectfully declined. Just as we would have declined had Hillary Clinton offered Bill
Clinton; had John McCain offered Cindy McCain; had Mike Huckabee suggested Janet Huckabee.
By any measure, by any measure, Michelle Obama’s personal story is empowering and inspiring. I
am moved by her personal story, as I have been, since I first met her. From the South side of
Chicago to Princeton, to Harvard Law, it is a quintessential American story of overcoming.
That said, last year at Howard, live on PBS, we spoke to candidates only. And that’s what we intend
to do next Saturday, February 23, in New Orleans, live on C-SPAN, speak to candidates only, with
all due respect.
And speaking of Howard, point number four. When we invited Senator Obama last year to
Howard, with all of the other announced Democratic candidates at the time, so many people, so
many people, said publicly, that Tavis is stacking the deck in Obama’s favor. Black college. Black
book. Black audience. Black journalists. Black moderator. “Smiley is stacking the deck for
Obama,” they said.
The Washington Post Editorial Board said that to me to my face. “Aren’t you stacking the deck for
Mr. Obama?” Now, eight months later, another simple invitation, along with all the other
remaining viable candidates, and now he’s being boxed in by me?
Respectfully, that dog just won’t hunt. Because by that logic, at this point in the campaign, any
gathering of Black thought-leaders, opinion-makers and influencers who invite Senator Obama to
appear on stage at a nationally televised event, that invitation --- in and of itself, given that logic ---
would be tantamount to “boxing him in.”
This was simply an invitation, nothing more. There has not been, there is not now, nor will there
be, any effort on my part to snap on the Obama campaign, or the McCain campaign or the
Huckabee campaign, if they choose not to attend. It was just an invitation to him and every other
candidate. Accept or reject. An invitation, nothing more, nothing less.
I’ve lost count now of how many debates the Democrats have had to address other issues that, in
fact, do matter to us. But I can tell you exactly how many times they’ve gathered to specifically
address our issues. There is no comparison.
Point number five. Senator Obama is on a mission. As he suggested in his letter, his mission is to
become the next President of the United States. And I ain’t mad at him. As I’ve said before, and I’ll
say it again, I revel in his historic run for the White House. As a Black man, I celebrate his past
accomplishments. I celebrate his future aspirations.
Respectfully, I knew Barack Obama long before most of us learned to pronounce his name
correctly. So long ago, in fact, that years ago Barack Obama was working with the kids in my
Foundation, speaking to them about leadership development way back when.
I have no personal animus toward Barack Obama.
To quote that great philosopher, George Wallace, “I love him and there ain’t nothing he can do
about it!” That said, I love Black people, too. And I have a vocation. I have a calling. I have a
purpose. And since this ain’t just about me, you have a purpose too. You have a calling, you have a
vocation as well.
And I would hope, this morning, that at the center of our collective calling, is an unconditional love
for Black people. His job right now is to get elected. Our job is to do our part to ensure that
whoever gets elected will be held accountable to the issues that matter most to Black people.
And in that regard, all that I have ever tried to do, with the media platforms, including this one, that
I have been blessed to have access to, is to attempt to speak a love language, to ask critical
questions, to engage in sober assessment and to counsel wise enthusiasm.
If Barack Obama is your candidate, I ain’t mad at you! If Hillary Clinton is your candidate, I ain’t
mad at you! I am not personally in the endorsement business. My small part is to engage in
Socratic questioning. As a Black person, a member of the media, I’ve said many times on this
program, my job is to ask questions, raise issues, address topics, and profile people that otherwise
wouldn’t get that kind of air play.
Now, as the old folk used to say, “I done spoke my piece.”
Senator Clinton has decided to join us. Senator Obama has decided not to. Senator McCain and
Governor Huckabee, we shall see.
But once again, it has never, ever been about them. It has always been about us. We cannot
confuse candidates with the cause. The cause of suffering Black people who are catching hell every
day.
So, I personally; I can only speak for Tavis, I personally have no intention, no interest in discussing
this matter beyond this commentary no matter what’s said about me. Except to promote the
Symposium, which I’ve done every year for almost 10 years now.
I’m told by the folk in the Lt. Governor’s office in Louisiana that it looks like we will have the
largest gathering of volunteers for a single day next Friday on our Day of Service, since Katrina hit
back in 2005. That’s what matters. Loving and serving everyday Black people.
Our conversation next Saturday promises to be spirited, soulful and inspiring.
Finally this morning, as I always say…today, more than ever…love wins. Love wins. Love wins.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
To hear Tavis’ commentary, please visit www.tavistalks.com.


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You may read a reprint of Senator Barack Obama's letter by clicking here.

Would you believe I searched the internet far and wide and the only place I could find a reprint of Senator Obama's original correspondence without abhorrent commentaries was Sister Lalah Hathaway's website. I had no idea a hate campaign against Tavis is ensuing and I certainly do not want to contribute to that. I merely want to air both sides objectively, thankfully Lalah Hathaway appears to be in the same spririt. WHICH lends to a GREAT opportunity to experience her soulful, sultry music! If you venture to the site, be sure to check her out! Awesome vocalist, musician and daughter of legendary Donny Hathaway! Enjoy that! Glad this trial led us to something positive!

February 16, 2008

Ho in the House!




Dan Ho is my ideal life mate. I SO enjoy his episodes. He is funny, hilarious even. He is smart, handsome, fit-minded, I could rant all day about him.

Catching as many segments as possible has assisted me in engraining in my lifestyle the essential need to be free. Maintaining a daily goal of clutter-free, stress-free living has lifted a burden.

It has also assisted in my not carrying a two ton purse. I can move effortlessly through my closet. I have a few cents in my pocket to donate because I am not constantly purchasing another lip-stick, sweater, pair of shoes, or knick nacks.

It is a life-choice and family benefits. Clutter distracts. Feeling closed in causes bickering and misalignment in the house.

I love when Dan says, "Ho in the House"! Laughter is a daily booster as well. Clears the lungs and lowers blood pressure. Seriously!

Dan Ho cooks too!





Often he puts together budget conscious meals that would enlist one in attempting to go through the screen just for a morsel. Not me of course! But I am sure someone has thought about it.

So, check him out if time permits ~ I know I will be enjoying him! Click here to meet HO! When we get married my new name will be Houseonahill Ho! Okay, okay, I quit! I had other commentary on here about Ho's hair, and Don Imus, but we are just going to focus! ~ but by now you all know I love to play with words. Enjoy the Day!

February 15, 2008

*****For those who would like to contact NIU to offer aid*****


Many of those affected will be seeking service from The Lutheran Campus Ministry

According to the website you may contact Communications Director, Karin Graddy via email only at Karin@nisynod.org or the Pastor, Diane Dardon at LCMatNIU@verizon.net.


You may also express your condolences here at the Guest book of NORTHERN ILLINOIS UNIVERSITY.


Fanatastic Friday ~ Nubian King Piye

National Geographic has been an informative piece of literature for many years. In the 70's it was mandatory reading in my household.

Perusing the internet world for something inspiring, led me to this:

BLACK PHARAOHS

It is a must read!

SHOW LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Be sure to send a prayer today here to Illinois ~

There is so much in the news today, I just want to remind us all that we are love.

We can rise above the tragedies we are all facing. We can handle the limitations our planet has made us aware of. We can adapt to the reality of our resources, the economy, and the sheer desperation our youths are expressing ~ but only through patience and love.

We must hold on to the promise. Tomorrow can be a shining comet, a rainbow moment, a sparkling dime, but if we bring down the curtain before the end of the show ~ we miss the opportunity to face the challenge and give it our best.

So, let us challenge each other today to love! Love in the face of darkness for it is the pathway to the light of day ~ Make it a GOOD ONE!

February 14, 2008

*****BREAKING NEWS*****

Prayers and Blessings for those affected by the Northern Illinois University killings in the Chicagoland ~

Prayers and Blessings for us all ~

As soon as there are details as to what we can do to help those injured and the families of those who did not make it, I will make them known immediately.


NIU GUNMAN CLTV NEWS

Between a Barack and a hard place

Everyone is talking about race, politics and gender. Where does the conscientous black woman voter stand?

Is there any room for me?

I feel left out. I feel closeted. I feel reposed.

I WANT to endorse Barack Obama. I have been scouring blogs, websites, and research for months. I am a former campaign volunteer for Barack Obama's senate campaign. I am from the South Side of Chicago. I SHOULD by all means be on board. I WANT to be ON BOARD! But I just can't!

I must hide in shame. I must cower in the dark.

Like so many other friends have commented, my non-black friends have been congratulating me for months on his successes, assuming I am for him because I am black. I have weighed every strategy, and looked into every aspect I could fathom. I have sent up smoke stacks on every blog I have visited for supporters to PLEASE send concrete evidence as to why he should be supported. I have visited his senate site and have talked with legislators, who are bipartisan, and have no agendas.

I remain unconvinced. Unmoved. Unmotivated. Uninspired. Mad. Maybe I should be happy with the status quo. Maybe I should go with the flow. Maybe I should just fall into alignment. It's not like I WANT to be left behind.

According to Dr Sanjay Gupta, sitting physician on CNN, it's my DNA's fault.

Well, maybe I am result of an alien experiment! But I just do not get all of the reasons WHY folks are supporting Barack Obama? Forsaking, of course, all of the obvious reasons (he's cute, he's an orator, he's a viable candidate-sorry Jesse Sr.) ~ Folks keep saying this is a movement. A civil rights movement? An environmental movement? A political bowel movement? An are-we-just-so-desperate we'll get excited about whatever movement?

I have always been a militant renegade, and always to some detriment. Maybe I should become an independent. Maybe I should leave politics alone. I keep saying that ~ and then I don't ~ I just can't. I am missing something, but I'm not quite sure exactly what it is. Beside its only four years. Or eight. We've had worse. At least everyone else is happy! Okay, THAT will be my mantra. I am hereby embracing everyone elses excitement! I guess.

~ If this were a classified ad I would sign it:

Lonely and Frustrated in the Blogosphere ~ signed the Odd Woman out

GO RED TODAY ~ HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!

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Friends, I LOVE YOU ~ Take good care of those warm & thoughtful hearts ~ GO RED TODAY!!!

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February 13, 2008

3 Cups of Cappaccino for the Red Cross Today!


I donated my three cups of Dunkin Donuts cappachinos today ~ How bout you???


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February 12, 2008

Avery Franklin Brooks


You know yesterday, I was so excited about James Earl Jones, I really did not share any autobiographical information. The point of featuring him was twofold. First, his ethnic make-up is so very similar to mine, his being of African, Irish(mine is French), Choctow, and Cherokee descent and second, he stuttered! His precise diction and utterly phenomenal pronounciation and presentation were result of his overcoming the stutter! How about that for a healthier, happier, you ~ which brings us to Avery Brooks! This blast from the past has made me want to honor all of the fine actors/actresses that have inspired me this wonderful Black History Month! But alas, we have SO little time!





If you recall from yesterday, I was crooning over James Earl Jones' bass which reminded me that I also love Avery Brooks. Growing up watching Spenser For Hire was a total excitement driven time. There was no cooler, badder dude ~ SHAFT who? I mean, shut yo mouth! Hawk was the man. He was suave, debonair, sexy, sleek and mysterious! He was a bad mo-fo fo-sho! Whenever I start ranting like this around the house, my son gives me that very same look I used to give my mother when Johnny Mathis would come on the tv. It is a kind of "Please, go look at yourself, you are pitiful" glare. Reluctantly I will try to contain myself for the purposes of sharing with you that Avery Brooks is a consummate entertainer. Born in Evansville, Indiana and raised in Gary, Avery Franklin Brooks attended Oberlin, Indiana University and received his masters from Rutgers University where he maintained his professorship until 1985.

His various roles after Hawk, include, Captain Benjamin Sisko on Star Trek (YES, I was a trekkie),





Paul Robeson and Othello (on and off Broadway), King Lear, Dr. Bob Sweeney in American X and countless voice over roles in so many documentaries. He is an accomplished singer, performing in American composer and jazz artist Anthony Davis' Opera X: The Life and Times of Malcolm X.





He is a huge talent and rightfully deserves our attention today! One site you can learn more about Avery Brooks is here on StarTrek.com! He is SO remarkable. Enjoy!

February 11, 2008

Black History today ~ James Earl Jones!


I can tell James Earls Jones' voice from anywhere. Listening to CNN 24 hours a day to feed my electionitis, I find comfort when they run his spot ~ his voice is SO soothing. I close my eyes, and have a moment of peace and joy. I feel so honored to have lived in a time where I can appreciate his talent. My son has no respect for his career. But when I was his age, there were no other colored men who were great fine actors on television capturing my generation ~ Billy Dee Williams would come later! Of course there was Richard Pryor at that time. And well, my mother googled after Sidney Poitier and Harry Belafonte, but I felt cozy staring into James Earl Jones' blue eyes and deep, deep, mesmerizing voice. There is nothing like good bass in a voice to make the knees week!

I have had my talent many years. And trust me, there have been many who have attempted to fool us. And let's not forget to honor the other great black voices of our time like favorite Avery Brooks and more recently Dennis Haysbert. I always listen closely for when the ads or trailers call for a deep voice and either James Earl Jones was unavailable, too expensive, and I can always flush them out. It is because he is one of my favorite actors. My earliest recollection of James Earl Jones is with Diahann Carroll!




Remember that!I was especially happy because I had a Diahann Carroll lunchbox.





It was very similar to this one ~ though my lunchbox was vinyl and pink. With Diahann Carroll as "Julia" the nurse, I was on top of the world ~ okay, I am showing my age!!


“Gabriel's Fire” (1990-1991), for which he won an Emmy Award in 1991, left me so impressed with his range! I was devastated when it went off the air.



He was The Great White Hope,





Darth Vader's voice, Mufasa and starred as Admiral James Greer in Harrison's Ford's stints as Jack Ryan!

So, James Earl Jones is my choice today to Honor for Black History Month!!! Be sure to catch his latest release Welcome Home Roscoe Jenkins.
And for the most comprehensive listing of his works that I could find, click here at IMDB!

February 10, 2008

Tornado Relief




Images courtesy of Mario E. Page


Living in Chicago, and especially the state of Illinois, I have seen my fair share of tornados. Just last summer the sirens went off. Crouching in the basement with family members and the dog, you really become in tune with just how small and insignificant we are to our planet. Many of our neighbors this past February 8th 2008 were unaware of the danger, or did not have enough time to get safe as this storm came on so quickly and ferociously.

We have been disaster ridden lately, our economy is deflated, and we are most certainly stressed out from these elections ~ but while we are tempted to make our voices heard, contributing here and there to different candidates ~ let's not forget our suffering brothers and sisters. None of us may have spare change, but you would become such the believer when you see how far $10 can go in the face of disaster.

Think about what you spend to treat yourself. If everyone gave up just one cup of coffee! Honestly, I was travelling through the Dunkin Donuts drive-thru yesterday out of desperation. I was literally falling asleep and I LOVE their machine dispensed cappaccinos. It has been a while because I have committed myself to saving when I can. So, when that lady said $3.46, I was screamed out "WHAT???" A cup of coffee is as much as a gallon of premium gas? WHAT! Desperate, and to avoid holding up the line, well I could have driven off, but like I said I was desperate, I vowed to keep my coffeee cup stocked in the car on weekends or carry a thermos from now on!

I will recover from that, and I then plan to donate 3 coffee visits to the American Red Cross toward the latest Tornando Relief Fund. Current relief services are stretched and depleting the American Red Cross Disaster Relief Fund. This fund is not a reserve; it is a working fund that needs continued replenishment when disaster strikes. As this tornado season and hurricane season approaches, one large storm could deplete the balance of the fund completely. GET THAT?? None of the SEASONS have officially approached! SO let's help them gain a foothold! Per the American Redcross, a comfortable threshold for the fund is $56 million. You can make a secure online credit card donation or call 1-800-REDCROSS or 1-800-257-7575 (Spanish). Contributions to the Disaster Relief Fund may be sent to your local American Red Cross chapter or to the American Red Cross, P. O. Box 37243, Washington, DC 20013. Internet users can make a secure online contribution by visiting www.redcross.org.

You may also offer relief through Antioch United Methodist Church. Here is a brief message from their site:

Here is a message sent from the Memphis Conference Disaster Relief Team: MEMPHIS ANNUAL CONFERENCE-- DISASTER RELIEF HOTLINE For all inquiries... including requests for assistance and/or offers to provide assistance. Please call this number beginning Monday, Feb. 11. Call: 1-877-664-2204 (Monday-Friday, 9:00 A.M.- 4:00 P.M.) Sack lunches will be needed after Wednesday, Feb. 13. Please call Disaster Hotline to offer assistance through volunteers or teams and to request assistance if needed. Bishop Richard Wills has authorized a disaster relief appeal. You may send your donations through your local United Methodist congregation. DONATIONS: Memphis Conference Disaster Relief, 24 Corporate Blvd., Jackson, Tennessee 38305-2315. ** In Jackson/Madison County, 577 Homes damaged or destroyed... approximately 100 businesses.
Thanks again for all of the prayers!!
Katie




Let me know if there are other relief efforts we should consider supporting!This disaster affected FIVE states! 60 tornadoes burrowed through Tennessee, Arkansas, Alabama, Mississippi and Kentucky. Many families need help today.

February 8, 2008

Friends On Friday Presents Dan Duster!





"Highlight the Positive, Learn from the Negative, and keep Moving Forward"
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Dan Duster is the magnetic motivator who has inspired many to achieve their dreams.
I have heard him speak and he engages while giving power to the commoner. I enjoy speakers who make you feel comfortable while giving you invaluable tips to fortify your life. I had a chance to pin Dan down. He is always on the go! But thankfully, he had a few moments to shed some light on our quest to mobilize and enhance ourselves all while making the best of this thing called life!

You worked in the corporate world for quite some time, and then left. You had a dream and a vision. How have you nurtured this into 3D Development Group?

I've been very successful in sales with top companies such as IBM, Coca-Cola, Abbott Diagnostics. Having gone through their training programs, I always liked training, motivational speaking and helping people achieve their goals. I had done youth motivation since around 1990 when I worked with IBM and always thought about trying to somehow do it professionally. After a long career in sales, in 2000, I got a contract at Verizon in Virginia as sales coach and loved it! There, I created my own workshops for the service reps to help them improve their sales. Within a year, I helped their office move from 4th in their district to number 1. That gave me the confidence to know that I could be effective. So, I moved back to Chicago in 2001 and started 3D Development Group.

In my keynote speech on Personal Achievement, I call myself Dan Duster “the Barrier Buster” – Obliterating Obstacles on your Path to Prosperity. I help people set and embrace their goals, then I help them realize they have the motivation, creativity and resources to achieve any those goals.

What do you share with people in order to get them to realize their own visions?

The first thing that I have people do is create their visions. I ask them to imagine where they would like to be in say, 5 years (whatever timeframe they are comfortable with). If you are in your ideal place, there are no barriers, no distractions; you are exactly where you want to be, doing what you want to do...what is that? I'll have them describe it to me in detail and make them experience that moment. They can go to my website http://www.danduster.net to get a free copy of "How to Achieve the Success that you Deserve" or call me at 773-456-1064 and I'll send them one.

You are related to Ida B. Wells, who was an extraordinary activist, feminist, and one of the founders of the NAACP. How has this impacted your life?

The first thing that comes to mind is COURAGE. She was a courageous person to do everything that she did and stand up in the face of adversity and literally life threatening dangers. She was constantly fighting for justice and equality, and she fought with everyone. Blacks thought she was too aggressive, white women felt she was too demanding and outspoken (with regards to the women's suffrage movement) and men in general thought she overstepped her bounds as a woman. So, when I consider all that she went through, the challenges that I face today seem pretty small.

She directly instilled the value for education in our family. 3 out of 4 of her children graduated from college; my grandmother’s children (my father and his sister and brothers) all graduated college and have advanced degrees; all of their children attended college and about half of us have advanced degrees. We grew up being asked: “What are you going to do after college?”

She also instilled the values of family, integrity and standing up for justice. Most of my relatives have been involved in some type of organization or effort to enhance the community.

I’ve delivered keynote speeches across the nation, talking about her struggles and triumphs in the late 1800’s to motivate audiences to overcome the obstacles we face today and Stand Up against injustices in the workplace, our schools and our communities. The themes of the speeches are Be WELL and Stand UP!

I talk about her principles of leadership;

Be W.E.L.L.;

Be Wise with your Choices,

Be Excellent with your Actions

Live with Integrity

Lead with Courage

Stand UP!:

Don’t be a “Guilty Bystander”; Do something to stomp out injustice whenever you see it!


What do you say to the upcoming generation of colored young men about fortitude and civic responsibility?

Wow, that's a great question! Fortitude is crucial; that's what I talk about in my Be WELL speech. I let them know that great leaders from the past often had to take a position that wasn't popular and be able to deal with folks calling them crazy, threatening them and/or abandoning them. That's when a person's true character shows; not in times of comfort and agreement, but in times of struggle and adversity.

Young men have several civic responsibilities. They must get an education so they can have options in the future and be able to be the leader in their families. They must contribute to their communities and their families; They must be willing to uplift, protect and respect the women in their communities; it's up to them to make this world a better place. They must continue the pursuit for justice and equality that our forefathers fought so hard to achieve. They are literally responsible for the future of our country; they must accept that and take action!

You have also spear-headed another venture, tell us about it?

I'm starting a speaker’s bureau / incubator Local Motivators for people interested in becoming motivational speakers and for current speakers who charge less than $5,000. I've found that there are a number of people that would like to be motivational speakers that need help cultivating their story and then marketing themselves to organizations. There are a number of organizations that want local talent to speak to their groups at a reasonable rate. I'm servicing that need.

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Thanks Dan!!! We'll be checking in with Dan from time to time getting updates, seminar information and tips on bettering our lives!




Dan Duster
President - 3D Development Group
9046 S. Blackstone Ave
Chicago, IL 60619
773-456-1064
877-3D-IMPACT
www.3ddevelopmentgroup.com
www.danduster.net

February 7, 2008

When I think of Ida Bell Wells-Barnett

Our friend over at Los Angelista's Guide to the Pursuit of Happiness ran a post this week about Black History. And well, it made me think about my mama.

Shhh. don't tell her that I told you guys but ~~~

My mama was born in the Ida B. Wells Chicago Housing Authority Development, OR "Project" as it is known here in Chicago. My Gran was so proud to tell the story that she birthed her at home. My mama was birthed on my grandmother's very own bed one cool October day. She had been baking my uncle's birthday cake when she went into labor. A neighbor helped her deliver, and well, my mama was born!

Ida B. Wells apartments were new back in those times. My Gran said she was so proud to have been selected to reside in a brand new unit. It even had a garden. To this day, it is still hard for me to imagine that these units were ever nice, or seen in a positive light, or were even places that people once felt good about. Nonetheless, when I think of Ida B. Wells the woman, as such the great activist and unifyer, I am certain that when they named the development for her, there were good intentions in mind.



Today the area lays in ruins with upscale development surrounding it. As a scathing editorialist, Ida B. Wells wrote fervently about the issues of black inequality. She was outspoken about lynching, suffrage and gender bias. Thankfully, Ida B. Wells' legacy lives on. Her great-grandson has fascinatingly partaken her postive energy and woven a pattern with it ~ pursuing, with dignity and with grace, many of her endeavors.




We will be meeting Dan Duster tomorrow as he is our "Friends On Friday" guest!

Dan is a motivational speaker. He is an entreprenuer. Dan is a civil rights activist.

Check Dan out here as he accepted an official apology from the United States Senate July 2005 enacted by the 109th Senate on February 7, 2005! Where was the media when Senate Resolution 39 happened???

I LOVE BLACK HISTORY MONTH!!!

Let's teach each other as much as we can!!!

Feel free to email me about the masses of things we have missed over the years. Things that you think we should know ~ it is never too late to educate each other on important subject matter! Learning is the key to life, now let's open some doors!!

No ONE person can catch everything, BUT as a group on a mission we can bring knowledge to the world!







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Feel free to contact Dan, he is so inspiring, and so innovative!


"Highlight the Positive, Learn from the Negative, and keep Moving Forward"
~ Dan Duster













3D Development Group
9046 S. Blackstone Ave
Chicago, IL 60619
773-456-1064
877-3D-IMPACT
http://www.3ddevelopmentgroup.com
http://www.danduster.net